孩子霸占了所有的休闲时间,怎么办

时间:2019-07-13 来源: 专栏
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I have a two-year-old son named Danny. Recently, there has been an increasingly serious problem between us, which makes me very upset about the ability to deal with him. Considering that Danny is the only child in the family and has no chance to reach out to his peers, and I often leave home, I try to vacate the time outside the work break and play with him. I will either read to him, or play games with him and do as much as possible to make him happy.

But because we often play together, there will be problems between us. As long as I am at home, he must call me to play. If I am not interested, it is difficult to say "no" to him. Because I played very hard at the beginning, the boring Danny wouldn't feel it, so he often felt very depressed.

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Although I am very reluctant to reject him, I found that I have refused more and more times. I just can't think of it. When I don't want to play, what can I say besides "no"? The result is that the more I reject him, the more he wants to win affirmation and acceptance from me. For the boy of two years and three months, can he understand that even a father who is often not at home has the right to refuse his request, but at the same time he refuses, he does not mistakenly think that Dad does not like him?

It can be seen that you are the same as most responsible parents and are overly indulgent in the various requirements of the child. If you are deeply guilty of refusing your child's request, you can only say that you are too valued.

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Children like Danny are more difficult to deal with (especially for responsible parents). From your description, your life must be regular in order to take care of Danny's feelings. At this point, you have to make a form to arrange his day's work, not only to let him have time to play with you, but also to allow you to have a leisure time.

xx像丹尼这样的孩子最好住在大房子里。你应该尽可能地避开他,然后在一段固定的时间内非常小心地和他玩。当你明白你与他相处一段固定的时间时,你的心就会被释放,而在其他时候你也不会感到尴尬。这样,他就不会像以前那样占用你所有的闲暇时间。

当只有一个人与他一起玩时,这种类型的孩子将表现良好。因为他更容易引起家庭成员之间的混淆,所以最好聘请一位保姆来照顾他,以减轻你的负担。

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